Relationship Tips : Should religion be a barrier to relationship/marriage

Good day readers ,i hope you're all doing great today? 

In a recent thread topic our CEO started on WhatsApp , brewing the topic which is focused on relationship issues and solutions .

And today's  topic is "should religion be a barrier to relationship or marriage ?"

Comments were dropped with diverse views from our active readers  , 

Miss Naimah was the first to drop her view : "The part of the world we live in takes religion more important than your feelings man,And plus, you wouldn't want your children to be confused na"

Followed by the CEO HybeeCreative : "Well u know we're different, nd our perspective to tins r different,Buh to me, my own believe either ure a Muslim, Christian or trad worshipper, we're one,Nd our main goal is to go to heaven"

Mr Adejumo Adekunle said : "to avoid future problem,inter religious marriage is a bomb set on timer,when their is children what religion will they follow,their mom or dad?" 

After Mr Adejumo dropped his comment, he got a reply from CEO MediaPronounceNG which stated "But as humans , I think we all have the freedom to choose whatever religion we choose to follow . .

So when the children are upto the stage of choosing that .they will . Pending the time they'll  get to that stage, They ought to follow the father's religion (bn the head of the house )"

And Mr Adejumo Adekunle replied "if they have to choose when they are adult by then it will be too late,cause of indoctrination,imagine the father being a Christian and the the Time the child is old enough to choose he or she might be already a choir master or a mistress, and you think when its Time to choose he or she Will choose One different from the One he or she is already practicing"

Seeing this comment, Mr Ibrahim decided to reply Mr Adejumo Adekunle's comment, "yeah, but i kinda disagree

...i changed my religion when i was seeking admission.

no matter what religion a child/teenager has been practising, he will end up changing whenever he z free 2 if he z not totally convinced... and that was my case" 

Well, it's a tradition in Nigeria to always get replies to whatever shot u take at anyone in Nigeria. Mr Ibrahim sure did got a reply from Mr Adejumo Adekunle .

"What I know is that its always better and safer for both  parent to be of same religion so as too project unity to the children,so the point is for one of the to convert before marriage thanks."

Mr ifeoluwa , a student of the federal University of Ilorin, Ilorin, Nigeria said ""Na dis tin no dey make me see babes  chop.... Dem no go Wan do my own cos most of them Na muslim" 

Seeing this actually shocked our correspondent ,who was prompted to reply him with "That's funny tho , but our ladies ain't food for people like you to devour sir.They are ladies of virtue !!! ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾.. So what do you think is the reason behind them not allowing you have your way ?"

And he did replied "Training from home ni.. Most parents Don tell dia kids not to have any relationship with the opposite religion"

Next on the comments list is DJ Holaxy ,one of Unilorin most promising Disk Jokey ,he said "And why should Religion be a barrier to marriage once *L O V E* Is involved, tho some parents will tell their son/daughter not to marry or date opposite religion, coz such parent sees it as a big *S L A P* On their face..

As for me I can date or marry a decent girl from any religion

🙌🏽🙌🏽" 

Miss Folakemi , a Student of the department of estate management , Unilorin and also a blogger replies to Mr Adejumo and Mr Ibrahim's comments saying "Issalie. I disagree. When a child is into a religion he won't change it. He grew up practising dat religion now he won't just change it all of a sudden. He won't that's just it" 

And got a reply from our correspondent , which stated "It is possible ma'am .. Lizzy anjorin is just a typical case study,if they have to choose when they are adult by then it will be too late,cause of indoctrination,imagine the father being a Christian and the the Time the child is old enough to choose he or she might be already a choir master or a mistress, and you think when its Time to choose he or she Will choose One different from the One he or she is already practicing"

A late reply came him from CEO Princeland Properties , Mr Adeyemi to the first comment made by miss Naimah "She made a stupid and a baseless point, Religion and Ethnicity are the two major problems we are facing in this part of the world, when you can't marry from other religion or tribe then how do you want to preach oneness and tolerance, and that is what leads to killing of each other and the bitterness some people harbor in there heart against mankind." 

Next on the comments list was Mr Otunla ,who highlighted "Religion holds a greater % when it comes to relationship" 

CEO Unic Hospitality Services also joined the conversation by staying her view and replying already made comments , below is her comments and replies .

"It should be cause you don't want your children to be confused later in life  and forget the children part it will later cause issues between you and your spouse,

There are things one religion allows that the other doesn't,it should be about children cause any decision we make now will affect them.But even with the true love we should think of what the offsprings in that kind of relationship will go through"

Miss Bamigboye Grace was the last person to drop her contribution before filing this report. She said "Well.... For me it should be cos a time will come when they will not comfortable with each other's religion, most especially when their children does know who to follow. This has caused many havoc in many homes. Look before you leap."

You can still keep the comments rolling by dropping your comments on this post... We hope this topic would be helpful to you or someone you know. Jah bless.

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